On top of my game!
I do like to eat more than just a salad on occasion. There must be SOME out there. He also should enjoy sports (that's a huge thing in my book), watching a live band, a night on the town or a quiet walk on the beach, and not be afraid to try new things.
I truely can't tell you 'exactly' what I want that person to be (you ever notice, all the people you've been with had little to no similarities), but there's never any harm in meeting or talking and finding out. I do enjoy light bondage, and am excited by the thought of heavier bondage and roleplaying. And I rather enjoy watching others at play. As far as the Domme/Sub role...I feel Domme, but like to please (if only of my own will)...so I guess that makes me a switch.