Keeping it simple: just sex!!
I am a 36 y.o. Black male. I work at a local ER and don't get a lot of time off. I really love sex, my wife However, she could take it or leave it. We rarely have sex, and when we do it's pretty boring. I've asked her to try new things but she refuses. Let's face it, a guy can only enjoy the missionary position for so long!!