I am a loving, caring thoughtful considerate, loyal, honest and trustworthy person and I'm looking for the same in a partner, regardless of what type of relationship it is.I try not to be judgmental, critize or lose my temper, but I'm not perfect by any means and I'm not looking for perfect, but when push comes to shove, I can and have shoved back as necessary to protect or defend myself, my family, friends, country or beliefs. The phrase, when push comes to shove is just a figure of speech.