Its only sex
I'm kinda short, but pretty fit. And I know how to please a woman because I'm not only interested in my own pleasure.
I really wouldn't want a superficial partner. I'm not typically drawn to the widely sought blonde hair, blue eyed, big boobed tan goddess. I actually prefer smaller breasts. And I'm more drawn to brunettes although hair color isn't too important to me. But personality is more important than looks, I known from experience.