let me light your fire or fan the flames
What do you want me to tell you, that I am the best ever to come down the pike, well I will not do that, it will be up to you to decide that. What will you get from me? Patience; to hear what you want and the willingness to listen and do what it within reason. Experience and knowledge; enough to know that it isn't about me, but all about you and the more I can satisfy you the more you will be willing to satisfy me. Anymore you will just have to ask.