For me, to be submissive is one of the greatest gifts I can give to some one...For me to be of use is far greater than being used...What I want is to have my mind taken way before my body is to be touched.I want to feel you in my mind when I wake, work, and go to sleep... I am looking for my "ONE".. to guide me, teach me and to eventually use me..I am looking for chemistry and a connection to be able to grow with the right person..I am looking for a long term and meaningful relationship with in the BDSM community..I do have my limits and low thresholds but with the guidance and teachings, I am willing to grow with the right person. To me trust is earned not given...What I am NOT interested in is to be used as a play ground, gang bangs or being shared "among friends".