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Benjamin44 71 years old, Man, Live in California

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Gender
Man
Looking For
Woman
Country
United States
Location
California, Sunnyvale
Marital Status
Married
Height
5 ft 6 in / 168-170 cm
Body Type
Slim
Race
Caucasian
Religion
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Profession
Medical (Nursing/Physician)

About Me

Looking for Gentle Intimacy
Just an average fellow looking for someone sweet, gentle and conversational who has a similar craving for human warmth and simple intimacy. I am in a longterm relationship and have no desire to change that. (You might say I am imperfectly happy.) I would characterize myself as honest and trustworthy, except for the fact that I am here. I am simply in search of a little spark to fill up an empty corner in my life, and thought "you" might be looking for the same.
I am looking for someone, and just one, who lives independently and would prefer to keep it that way, yet would welcome an FWB relationship with a conversational and respectful man. "She" is thoroughly feminine, of course, and may feel the need to "vent" or chat away the time without being talked down or condescended to. "She" is someone who wants to be held and caressed and wishes to give the same in return, once she believes herself in company with a man she feels she can trust with her ideas and her emotions. (I dislike boisterous, arrogant and macho men whose only goal in life seems to be putting women down and making them feel worthless or stupid.) I am interested in someone who is something of a homebody. (Not much of a "night lifer" myself.) "She" is someone who likes being a woman and who would prefer a man to gently push the hair from her eyes with the tips of his fingers, to cup her head against his chest and to feel warm and relaxed around when she feels the need, to a man who would treat her in a predatory fashion. I am looking for someone who finds that making love is vastly more gratifying than raw sex and whose idea of an "illicit affair" might even cause some others to LOL just because it is intimate and caring.