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Contentedly and competently living alone, I have enjoyed the relaxed and companionable company of a regular lady friend for occasional walks, dinners, social engagements, wine on the beach and general companionship (and regular, enthusiastic sex "friends who f*ck") in an entirely unpressured, doourownthing arrangement. She has moved on, geographically. Surely there must be someone similarly secure, somewhere.